There are all sorts of reasons why women may want to get pregnant faster. Some plan for their baby to be born within a particular ‘window’ of time, or work towards their children being separated by an age preferred space of time. Couples who don’t have the option of being together all the time may also need to plan conception more carefully.
Reasons why getting pregnant faster may be important
- Maternal age. As women get older, conceiving naturally becomes more difficult.
- Having their children close together in ages.
- Work commitments. For some women, taking extended time off work is unrealistic.
- A strong emotional drive to conceive and have a baby.
- Medical reasons where falling pregnant may have been a recommendation. Some genetic disorders are more common in older couples.
- When a partner works away from home and the option of leaving conception to chance is not feasible.
- Personal reasons such as finances, housing and pressure from extended family – though this is never a good reason to conceive.
Conceiving in a hurry isn’t impossible, but it can take a little executive planning.
The general recommendation from health care providers is that if a couple has not conceived within 12 months of trying then it may be worthwhile for them to have fertility investigations done. But some couples choose not to wait this long, in case they will need some form of intervention.
Do what feels right for you. Many times, getting pregnant faster is a simple matter of adjusting the timing of sex to coincide with the days of a woman’s peak fertility.
What helps to get pregnant faster’
- If you want to get pregnant faster, then look after yourself. This may sound pretty basic but it’s one of those strategies which is often overlooked.
- Look after your general health and well-being. Working too hard, skipping meals, not getting enough rest or sleep all contribute to elevated stress levels which can potentially affect ovulation.
- Make sure you and your partner are within a healthy weight range. Being overweight or obese won’t help your chances of getting pregnant.
- Have regular sex. Without question, this is the number one way to get pregnant. Irregular, infrequent or sporadic sex automatically reduces the chances of conception. Aim to have sex every 2-3 days (or nights), and this will boost your odds.
- Stop using all methods of contraception. If you have been taking the oral contraceptive pill, or have had contraceptive injections or implants, then you may find it takes a few months after they have been ceased for your regular cycles of ovulation to return to normal.
- Be open-minded and not too prescriptive about your life. You may need to change plans to have sex when you are most fertile. Not everything can be planned for, and spontaneity is an important strategy when wanting to get pregnant faster.
- Your partner and yourself may benefit by having a medical check-up. Gaining reassurance and getting the all clear from your GP will help to confirm for you that your body is ready to support conception and pregnancy.
- Aim to have sex when you are about to ovulate, not afterwards. Sperm can live up to five days after they’ve left the man’s body, but ideally the woman’s egg needs to be fertilised within 12-24 hours after she has ovulated. You may want to keep an ovulation chart in order to track your cycle.
- Learn about your body and how it works. There are some excellent books and web-based sites available which specialise in male and female reproduction. Check this pages for articles on conception,fertilisation and pregnancy.
- Try to relax about conceiving. If sex becomes a chore and just a means to an end, then it won’t be enjoyable for you or your partner. Keep it in perspective and maintain your sense of humour. It can take months to conceive so don’t burn out too quickly. Remember, getting pregnant can be more of a marathon than a sprint for many couples.
- Think about using an ovulation testing kit. There is some disagreement about how effective these are, but it won’t hurt to use one. Some women claim they benefit from the secondary gain of the kits helping them to become more familiar with their body’s cycles. The kits work by detecting changes in hormones which occur just before ovulation.
- Avoid smoking cigarettes and taking any illicit drugs. Even excessive amounts of alcohol, caffeine and over the counter medications can impact on how quickly you could get pregnant. If you are taking prescription medication, then talk with your prescribing doctor about whether you need to go off it or if it is safe to continue taking it.
- Check the Best positions for getting pregnant article on this site. It’s full of interesting information and tips on what may help to conceive.
- Don’t be in too much of a hurry to stand up after you’ve had sex. There may be benefits to staying in a lying down flat position for 30 minutes or so after you’ve finished. Whether this helps with conception because it helps the semen to stay inside the vagina for longer, is open to debate. But it can’t hurt either.
- Have sex in the mornings if you have a choice. Some research supports the theory that sperm levels are slightly higher first thing in the morning when compared to evenings or other times of the day.
- Avoid using saliva or plain water as lubricants. Both can have an adverse effect on sperm numbers.
What can my partner do to help me get pregnant faster?
- Ensure your partner is following a healthy diet. Zinc is an important nutrient which helps to support healthy sperm function. So seafood, green leafy vegetables, eggs, fruits and cereals all need to regularly feature in his diet.
- It’s important that your partner does not allow his testicles to overheat. Wearing tight underpants, sitting in a hot bath or spa and wearing tight trousers will all have an effect on the numbers of sperm which he is producing. The reason why the testicles are located where they are is because they need to be kept at a cooler temperature than the rest of his body. He may want to consider wearing boxer shorts rather than briefs if you’re really keen to get pregnant more quickly.
- Suggest to your partner that he conserves his semen for sex. It takes time for sperm levels to build up again after ejaculation which is why having sex more than once a day isn’t thought to help boost the chances of conceiving.
- Keep interested and share the responsibility. Some men see their role in the baby making business as being over once the sex has finished. But keeping the romance alive and showing genuine concern and willingness to be involved makes a huge difference.
Other tips to help get pregnant faster
Aside from the physical aspects of boosting conception, it is also worth thinking about the emotional side of your relationship. Taking the time to be considerate with each other helps to support a regular and healthy sex life. If you feel your interest in each other is flagging, then try:
- Doing something different. It can be very easy to let the goal of getting pregnant eclipse everything else in life. Keep some perspective on your life – balance is the key to a happy life.
- Go away, enjoy a change of scenery and be adventurous. Many couples report their success with baby making came about when they had a break from their usual routine.
- Be kind to each other and yourself. Small acts of thoughtfulness like making a meal, buying each other a treat, offering a massage or encouraging a sleep-in all count for a lot.
- Some couples report that positive visualisation helps them to conceive. ‘Seeing’ themselves with their baby and creating welcoming, positive vibes won’t hurt.
- Don’t feel you need to tell the world you’re trying to conceive. This can really cause couples to feel they’re under the spotlight and pressured. Know when to be discrete and keep some information to just yourselves.
- Avoid viewing sex as a means to an end.